10 Essential Tips for Newlyweds from an OK Premarital Counselor | Stay Married Forever

Premarital Counselor | Stay Married Forever

Hello, and Welcome back to our YouTube channel today.  Being here we know that you love weddings, which we try to keep you informed about. I’m Makayla, a wedding officiant. Today, a premarital counselor in Oklahoma will be sharing with newlyweds 10 important tips that will help them stay married forever.  So, don’t touch the dial, sit tight and enjoy. Don’t forget that, to get the services of a professional wedding officiant you can reach out to us at (405) 696-6450.

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Introduction to the video

We will be the first to tell you that marriage requires a lot for it to work. You need to put in the work with your partner. Exercise forgiveness daily because your partner may get on your nerves. You need patience and you have to choose to fall in love with your partner every day. Besides these, what are the newlywed tips for staying married forever?

1 Communication

You have probably heard several times that the key to building a strong marriage is communication, and that is true. So many people neglect to talk to their partners about seemingly mundane things. They shut their partner out and feel that their partner should know their feelings, thoughts, desires, needs, or wants. If their partner does not know, they feel that their partner does not care which is the furthest thing from the truth. Learn to voice out your thoughts and needs. Also, listen carefully to what your partner is telling and not telling you because that will make your marriage work

2 Respect and Trust

In premarital counseling, most premarital counselors always bring up respect and trust as keys to a successful marriage. If you did not attend premarital counselling it is not too late because you can still learn. Respecting and trusting your partner even when in conflict is necessary because that builds a healthy relationship. It lets your partner know their value in your life and when they are aware of it, your relationship is better.”

3 Teamwork

The third tip to a long-lasting marriage is working in partnership with your partner. See each other as part of a team. When you are a team member with someone you will not try to sabotage them because you both have collective goals, dreams, and visions that can come to fruition with everyone putting in the work. Do not be against your partner. Support them and stand by them.

4 Embrace Imperfections

During Oklahoma premarital counseling, counselors always teach couples that nobody is perfect which is nothing but the truth. The person you love has flaws, and quirks, can irritate you sometimes, and even hurt you unintentionally. Love your partner and remember that you both have the opportunity to grow each day and be better versions of yourselves. So, love them regardless of their flaws.

5 Foster Intimacy

Prioritize emotional and physical intimacy. Make time for date nights, romantic getaways, and meaningful conversations. Do not neglect to do the fun intimate things you used to do when you both were courting. Forever cherish your partner and show them that you love them.

6 Forgive and Forget

Another marriage tip is letting go of hurts, grudges, and resentments. Your partner will hurt you even when they do not want to. So, continually give them grace and forgive them because when you hold on to anger, you are slowly building resentment which will hinder you from having a happy marriage

7 Support Each Other’s Dreams

You are supposed to be your partner’s biggest cheerleader. You should believe in them, and encourage and support their goals and passions. Your partner should be able to count on you to be there for them and help them

8 Embrace Conflict

One of the marriage tips you should not neglect is embracing conflict because it will happen. So, you and your partners need to find ways that conflicts can be handled in a healthy and constructive manner. You should not hate your partner because of conflict. Instead, conflict should be an opportunity for you both to know each other and love each other

9 Prioritize Quality Time

A newlywed advice that must be taken seriously is prioritizing quality time. Your career or children may come into the picture that demands your attention. But, your partner should be your priority, and schedule spending time with your partner, take it seriously anddd ensure you do it. It lets your partner know that you love them”

10 Cultivate Gratitude

Practice gratitude and appreciation for each other and your life together. There may be bad moments, they may not always meet your expectations, but focus on the positive. Let your partner know that you see them, you appreciate them and you are glad to have them in your life. This helps to build a successful marriage


Our Oklahoma premarital coach has said it all with this marriage advice for newlyweds. Take this advice seriously. Communicate with your partner about anything and everything. Remember that it is your responsibility to create the marriage and life with your partner that you dream of. At Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies, we are interested in your big day turning out great and memorable. So, to get the services of a professional wedding officiant with a proven track record, reach out to us at https://www.lifelongweddingceremonies.com and LifelongWeddingCeremonies@Gmail.com, you can also call or text us at (405) 696-6450. Do not forget to like, share, and subscribe for more informative content.”

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