Hi guys, Makayla here, and today we’re discussing something that’s as cute as it is novel: incorporating your cats into your wedding ceremony! For many couples, the cat isn’t merely a pet—it’s family. So, no surprise here that increasingly more people want their feline friends to share in their special day. But how do you do so without mayhem?
Do not worry, I’ve got your back. As an OKC ordained minister, I’ve witnessed everything, and today I’m sharing some purr-fectly fabulous advice for incorporating cats into your wedding ceremony. And one last thing, be sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss an upload. Believe me, you’re going to want to stay tuned for this one.
The Cat Ring Bearer
Let’s begin with the traditional: the ring bearer cat. This is a couple’s top choice when they wish their cat to have a leading role in the ceremony. The concept is straightforward: your cat brings the rings down the aisle, either in a small pillow or a little pouch attached to their collar.
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Tips for Success:
- Practice Makes Perfect: Get your cat used to walking on a leash or in a pet stroller in advance.
- Keep It Short: Cats won’t pay attention for long stretches of time, so make the aisle walk as short as you can.
- Have a Backup: Have a human ring bearer ready as a backup in case your cat is more interested in napping than acting.
Pro Tip:
Use a harness rather than a collar to keep your kitty comfortable and safe at all times.
The Cat of Honor
Why limit it to ring bearer? Your cat can be the cat of honor! This is ideal for couples wishing to include their cat in the ceremony with minimal movement. Just have your cat sit beside you during the vows, either in a carrier, on a leash, or in the arms of a close friend.
Tips for Success:
- Select a Quiet Location: Ensure your cat is in a quiet, cozy place where they won’t get stressed.
- Bring Treats: Distract and keep your cat happy with their favorite treats.
- Appoint a Cat Handler: Appoint someone to be in charge of monitoring your cat throughout the ceremony.
Pro Tip:
In case your cat is shy, have them in an ornamental carrier so that they’ll feel secure.
The Cat-Themed Decor
If your cat does not enjoy crowds, you can still involve them in your wedding by incorporating cat-themed decorations. The possibilities are limitless for involving your cat in the festivities, from table centerpieces to cake tops.
Suggestions for Cat-Themed Decorations:
- Cat Cake Topper: Have a custom cake topper made that resembles your cat.
- Photo Displays: Incorporate pictures of your cat into the decor, such as on the guestbook table or in a photo collage.
- Cat-Inspired Favors: Provide guests with cat-inspired favors, such as small cat toys or cat-shaped cookies.
Pro Tip:
Incorporate your cat’s favorite colors or patterns into the decor to make it even more special.
The Cat Video Montage
For couples who want to include their cat but don’t want to risk any on-site chaos, a cat video montage is perfect. Create a short video of your cat doing cute or funny things and play it at the reception.
Tips for Success:
- Keep It Short: A 1-2 minute video is perfect—long enough to be cute but not so long that it loses the audience’s attention.
- Add Music: Select a upbeat or sentimental tune to play over the video.
- Include a Message: Place a caption or voiceover expressing your gratitude to your cat for sharing their life with you.
Pro Tip:
If you’re tech-savvy, you can even make a “cat interview” video in which your cat “speaks” about their role in the wedding.
The Cat-Inspired Vows
Why not mention your cat in your vows? This is a romantic and personal way to recognize your pet’s part in your relationship. You can talk about how your cat brought you closer or how they’ve provided comfort and happiness.
Examples of Cat-Inspired Vows:
- “Just as [Cat’s Name] has been with us through thick and thin, I promise to always be with you.”
- “I vow to love you as unconditionally as [Cat’s Name] loves their favorite sunbeam.”
Pro Tip:
Keep it lighthearted and genuine—your guests will love the personal touch.
The Cat-Friendly Venue
If you’re determined to have your cat at the ceremony, make sure you book a venue that’s cat-friendly. Venues do not accept pets, so look ahead of time. Look for outdoor venues, pet-friendly event venues, or home ceremonies.
Tips on Choosing a Cat-Friendly Venue:
- Review the Rules: Make sure the venue accepts pets and ask about any restrictions.
- Consider Space: Pick a location with ample space for your cat to walk around comfortably.
- Prepare for Comfort: Take your cat’s favorite toys, blanket, and treats to ensure comfort.
Pro Tip:
If the location doesn’t permit pets, inquire if they will make an exception for a well-behaved, small cat.
The Cat Photo Booth
Should you want something light and interactive to incorporate your cat, create a cat-themed photo booth at the reception. Guests can pose for photos using the cat props you provide, such as ears, tails, and whiskers, or even a life-size cardboard cutout of your cat.
Suggestions for Cat Photo Booth Props:
- Cat ears and tails
- Whiskers and face paint
- Your cat’s cardboard cutout
Pro Tip:
If your cat is sociable around people, you can even have them make a cameo at the photo booth.
Conclusion: Making Your Cat Part of Your Big Day
And that’s it—how to include your cat in your OKC wedding ceremony. Whether your cat is the center of attention for the whole shebang or a subtle addition in the background, there are plenty of ways to incorporate them into your big day. Just remember, the most important thing is to plan in advance and watch out for your cat’s well-being.
If you would like an ordained minister who is just as thrilled to meet your cat as you are, contact Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies. Our address is www.lifelongweddingceremonies.com, our email address is LifelongWeddingCeremonies@gmail.com, and our phone/text number is (405) 696-6450. We will work to make your wedding day as lovely and stress-free as possible—for you and your pet.
